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Most Definitely

by Trent Gilliss, senior editor

This poster epitomizes the thrust of our ongoing Civil Conversations Project:

“I hold some very strong opinions, but none of them are simplistic enough to be adequately expressed on this poster. However, if you’d like to find out more, feel free to engage me in a calm and intelligent discussion.”

Absolutely dig this photo.

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The Conscience Behind the “Idea of America”

by Krista Tippett, host

It’s easy to forget, especially around U.S. Independence Day, how much trial and error went into the creation of American democracy, how much of what Americans now take for granted wasn’t fully formed for decades after 1776. The warm and wise philosopher Jacob Needleman looked back at the American founders with this in mind for his book The American Soul. He took apart the ingredients that grew up our democracy. And he found that every iconic institution, every political value, had “inward work” of conscience behind it. Every hard-won right had a corresponding responsibility.

It feels important to me, right now, to revisit the 2003 conversation I had with Jacob Needleman about this, and have been formed by ever since. In our historical moment, it is as clear as ever before that the American republic is an ongoing work in progress. And at the very same time, young democracies are fighting to emerge across the world and are looking for instruction and models.

To rise to this occasion, I believe, we need to remember and pass on this inward work as much as the outer forms of government that were long in the making. As we created this week’s show, we also pulled in words Jacob Needleman points to — of founding voices of “the idea of America.” These include George Washington and Thomas Paine, but also Frederick Douglass and Walt Whitman.

For this commentary, I offer excerpts of Jacob Needleman’s insights from our interview — and a little Walt Whitman — for remembering and reflection.

On the rights of the individual

“Individualism and individuality have to be separated. Individualism can take a turn where it’s a kind of egoistic, selfish thing: Me, me, me, me, and what I want and what I care, what I think and what I like. Oh sure, we need to have the liberty to express all that, but a real individual is a different thing. And to be truly one’s self is to be truly in contact with this great self within, this divinity within. And the paradox of true individuality is that the more you are in touch with what all human beings have in common under God, the more you are uniquely what you, yourself, are. And that’s why I say we need to bring back the obligations that go along with the rights in order to understand the depths of what the human rights really mean.”

On freedom

“A democratic citizen is not a citizen who can do anything he wants. It’s a citizen who has an obligation at the same time. And just to give you an example, if I may, the freedom of speech, what is the duty associated with it? Well, if … I have the right to speak, I have the duty to let you speak. Now, that’s not so simple. It doesn’t mean just to stop my talking and wait till you’re finished and then come in and get you. It means I have an obligation inwardly — and that’s what we’re speaking about, is the inner dimension. Inwardly, I have to work at listening to you. That means I don’t have to agree with you, but I have to let your thought into my mind in order to have a real democratic exchange between us. And that is a very interesting work of the human being, don’t you think?”

On conscience 

For the founders and for all spiritual teachers — and by “founders,” by the way, I want to broaden the founders to include people who came later, including such people, of course, as Lincoln and also — one people may find strange — Frederick Douglass and people like that who spoke very powerfully of conscience. Conscience is an absolute power within the human psyche to intuit real values of good and evil and right and wrong. We are born with that capacity. It’s not just socially conditioned into us. This is what the great traditions teach. This is what I think. But it is covered over by a lot of the egoism and chaos of our un-free inner life.”

On the importance of “thinking” in public, political life

“Shouting is not thinking. ‘Come let us reason together,’ the prophet says, God says to Isaiah… I think the moment you start thinking together with someone, immediately their eyes light up… I must confess I spoke to — I won’t say who, but I spoke to some members of Congress not long ago. We had a very quiet evening together and we started opening up, just what you and I are doing now. And they said, in effect, you know, ‘We never get a chance to do this. We’re in there trying to, you know, speak to television cameras or make points with electorates or with lobby groups, but we never…’ I said, ‘You mean you never come together and just reflect together?’ And they said no. To me, that’s the dirty secret of America at the moment. That’s the problem.”

From Walt Whitman’s essay Democratic Vistas, which Jacob Needleman also includes as part of the long tradition of the foundational “idea of America,” and which ends our show.

“I say the mission of government, henceforth in civilized lands, is not repression alone and not authority alone, not even of law, nor the rule of the best men, but higher than the highest arbitrary rule, to train communities through all their grades beginning with individuals and ending there again to rule themselves. To be a voter with the rest is not so much. And this, like every institute, will have its imperfections. But to become an enfranchised man and now, impediments removed, to stand and start without humiliation and equal with the rest, to commence the grand experiment whose end may be the forming of a full-grown man or woman — that is something.”

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This happened the day after I turned 3 years old!!  My dad and I were at my grandmother’s in Cresent City, CA and I was sitting on a high stool right by T.V. so I could see the “First Man Walk on The Moon”!!  They took a photo of me sitting next to the television set right when he took onto the surface of the moon - so for a long time I had that picture of me and ”that first step” in the background!! Great memory!  :)

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July 20, 1969 - Extravehicular Activity on the Moon

This is a photograph of Astronaut Edwin “Buzz” Aldrin, Jr. on the moon during the Apollo 11 Mission.  


Being Blog: Hate Crime: A Poem of Grace and Gratefulness

The Way They Loved Each Other

What to be more astonished at: 
my calm as the fist made contact 
and I saw a flash of white 
and the world went silent 
as if I had stepped out of it 
momentarily, only to be brought back 
with a rush of sound and visible objects— 
the way I asked them to help me 
find my glasses, expecting them 
(even as they taunted me, 
even though they had just assaulted me) 
to feel underneath the violent tribal urge 
the obligations of empathy— 
the way even as one of them found my glasses 
and smashed them again on the ground 
I refused to believe that was really 
what he wanted to do—the way 
they loved each other 
in the most primitive manner 
but loved each other nonetheless 
despite feeling the need to punish a “faggot” 
who did not dress like them, because 
he did not dress like them— 
the way tears and nausea overwhelmed me 
nightlong much more than had the blow itself— 
the way such small suffering can feel 
unbearable—the way no strength is found 
for what seems to have no explanation, 
a troubled mind more harmful 
to the body than fractured bones.


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by Luke Hankins, guest contributor

Grocery store parking lot(photo: The Consumerist/Flickr/CC-BY-2.0)

I was verbally and physically assaulted in a parking lot at a local grocery store by four people because they thought that my shorts were too short and that I looked like a “faggot.” They didn’t try…

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